How does one succeed in life?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Procrastinates a lot.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Does not procrastinate.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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That's it for today.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

If a guy is attracting a bunch of what he believes to be "ugly" women, is he crushing the dating game?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Ask yourself:

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What I need from you?

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Do not set goals—set systems.